Silent Treatment, Ghosting, and No Contact (What’s the Difference?)
Narcissists love to use the silent treatment and ghosting methods of manipulation and control; however, you are the one that must go no contact to save yourself. All three of these tactics are used in narcissistic relationships; however, you are the one that conducts...
Common Words Narcissists Use During Triangulation
Triangulation is a manipulation tactic that narcissists use to isolate their victims. Flying monkeys are the people that narcissists use during triangulation. These individuals may not even know that they are being used by the narcissist. Narcissists manipulate their...
Confronting a Narcissist
Have you ever fantasized about confronting a narcissist? I’m sure you have. Although it can be incredibly tempting to finally confront the narcissist in your life that has been making you miserable, it’s important to know exactly what you’re dealing with so that you...
Strategies for Beating a Narcissist: Boundaries
True or False: If your narcissist takes a wrong turn while driving, you let it slide . . . but if you are the one who takes a wrong turn while driving, you get an earful. True or False: If your narcissist asks you not to drive his car without asking, you remember and...
Signs of Narcissistic Hoovering
Hoovering usually occurs when a narcissist and his or her victims have ended the discard phase of the relationship. The discard phase is usually the relationships quasi-ending- meaning, it does not usually ever end for either people (at least without proper strategy)....
What Narcissists Hate
Narcissists are going to hate anything that may interrupt their supply source. They will even hate something that they think is going to interrupt their supply source- but really won’t. Everything that narcissists do and say is related to their constant quest for...
Why Narcissists Are Always Watching You
Have you ever noticed that the narcissist in your life is always eyeing you down? Maybe you have seen them staring intensely at you or checking you up and down. Maybe you have caught them looking at you and then looking away once you have noticed them. I have always...
When A Narcissist Tells You They Love You
When a narcissist says “I love you,” do they mean it? Remember that narcissists are on a constant quest for narcissistic supply which is anything that feeds a narcissist’s ego. They will do just about anything and everything they can in order to get narcissistic...